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                  <p> <font size="2" face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif"> <b><font size="3">SPEECHES 
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                    <a href="mailto:nchet@aol.com">Neil Chethik</a> has been a 
                    professional presenter for a decade. He is available to speak, 
                    or lead workshops, at churches, hospitals, men's organizations, 
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                        <p><font size="2" face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif"><b>What 
                          Sons Need From Their Dads: A Blueprint for Affectionate 
                          Fathering</b></font></p>
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                        <p><font size="2" face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif"><b>No 
                          Regrets: How To Prepare For the Death of a Parent</b></font></p>
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                        <p><font size="2" face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif"><b>Mourning 
                          in Action: How Men's Style of Grieving is Unique&#151;and 
                          Why it Works</b></font></p>
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                        <p><font size="2" face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif"><b>The 
                          Light Touch: How Women Can Help the Men in Their Lives 
                          at Times of Loss</b></font></p>
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                        <p><font size="2" face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif"><b>Making 
                          Peace: How To Reconcile a Relationship With a Parent</b></font></p>
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                  <p><font size="2" face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif"> "Neil's 
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                  <p><font size="2" face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif">"Neil 
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